My husband is divorcing me to be with his partner https://onlinedivorcer.com/blog/how-to-divorce-a-narcissist-and-win. We have been married for thirteen years. I was an idiot and sacrificed everything for my family (quit my job I worked for 10 years to become a SAHM, moved several states away from my family/friends for his job, did all the cooking/cleaning/childcare, etc., etc.). I suspected cheating and in October 2021 he said to me, "What do you think of the breakup? We tried two therapy sessions because I begged him, but of course by then he was already cheating (he was very open about it, taking calls from her in our bedroom, talking about her to his family on the phone while I was in the room, posting cute pictures of them together on FB, etc.).
Honestly, he's an asshole and I don't want to stay married to him. What breaks me down is my kids. We have two sons (ages 9 and 7) and today my youngest asked to go "home to AP after school". I have been replaced and forgotten everything in my life and I just can't handle it. He lives with her and will take my kids for 50/50 custody right to her house. I am sure they will love her much more than they love me, after all, she is not the old, worn out, broken person I have become. I have no career, no friends, no family support, and everyone (including my own sons) loves AP.
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